Tshepo Maseko Returns to TV with ‘Ubuthe Uzobuya
Tshepo Maseko has made a comeback on television as the host of Showmax’s Ubuthe Uzobuya.
The show is an intervention series dedicated to supporting spouses who have been unexpectedly abandoned in their marital homes without explanation.
How did you prepare for your role as the host of Ubuthe Uzobuya?
My approach was to be as authentic as possible. I chose to be myself, striving to be genuine and direct in my interactions. Throughout the process, I always keep the dignity of the guests in mind.
What is the most important lesson you took away from your experiences during filming?
That decisions will follow you throughout your life. Every choice matters, and starting off on the right foot is crucial.
Are there recurring themes that emerge from the stories shared on the show?
Almost all the stories reflect a common theme, or the absence of one. People often fail to clarify their intentions, leading to hurt and pain. Many individuals don’t start their relationships on the right foot and can end up using others. Ultimately, it highlights a truth about human nature: we can be quite selfish at times.
How does hosting this series differ from your previous acting experiences?
Thankfully, I don’t have to act. Everything is real. This makes it more challenging as it’s always unpredictable. However, it’s also raw and genuine, which I love. I feel connected to the show as the host and as an audience member.
Were there any couples who successfully reconciled during the course of the show?
I can’t say for certain whether couples will remain permanently reconciled as the presence of cameras can influence people’s behaviour. However, it’s clear people don’t leave for no reason. There are often deeper issues at play. For many men who left, their primary plea was for respect, while for many women it was a plea against abuse. I truly hope all of them can achieve lasting reconciliation, specially since children bear the brunt of the consequences.
Did any participants decide to leave their new families to return to those they had left behind?
Yes, some of them do return. Not everyone leaves or stays purely because of love. People make choices about whether to stick it out or move on. Relationships are fundamentally about choices, choices we make every day.
How do you handle emotionally charged conversations with guests on the show?
Ubuthe Uzobuya is profoundly emotional, and I’m grateful it isn’t trashy. It feels genuine. It’s created with dignity, which I truly appreciate. I specially love that the participants must be married. This adds an important layer to the show. It serves as a form of therapy and is incredibly necessary. The nation needs this kind of dialogue.
In your personal life, have you encountered similar situations?
I know a friend who is in a similar situation. After he watched the first episode, I suggested we go and fetch his wife, who lives separately with their three children. However, he feels embarrassed about it. This friend is a fan of the show and, by the way, he is very affluent.
