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  • Woman Stands Trial for AK-47 Attack on Ex-Boyfriend

    Woman Stands Trial for AK-47 Attack on Ex-Boyfriend

    Woman Stands Trial for AK-47 Attack on Ex-Boyfriend

    **Shocking Incident in Pietermaritzburg**

    A woman accused of shooting her former boyfriend and father of her child with an AK-47 appeared in the Pietermaritzburg Magistrate’s Court on Thursday on charges of attempted murder.

    Nokulunga Penelope Mthethwa (39), a resident of Henley Dam, was arrested earlier this week after a disturbing video went viral. The footage showed her standing over the injured man, who lay on the ground after she had allegedly shot him. The victim is currently in the hospital receiving medical treatment.

    ## **Brutal Attack Captured on Video**

    The viral footage also shows Mthethwa kicking and striking the victim with the rifle during the violent altercation in Azalea, Pietermaritzburg. According to eyewitness accounts, Mthethwa arrived at the scene in a car, carrying the firearm.

    A witness reported, “She argued with the man, who was walking with another woman, and then shot him multiple times.”

    ## **Police Investigation and Firearm Tracing**

    Sergeant Sifiso Gwala, spokesperson for the uMgungundlovu police, confirmed that their investigation revealed a heated argument between Mthethwa and the victim before the shooting. She allegedly fired three shots into his abdomen and another into his leg.

    Authorities launched a comprehensive investigation, involving multiple law enforcement units, including the uMgungundlovu SAPS District Task Team, SAPS Trio Crimes Task Team, SAPS E2 District Project, and Aphiwe Protection Services. They traced the firearm and determined that it belonged to Mthethwa’s current boyfriend, who works as a security guard.

    ## **Legal Proceedings and Bail Application**

    Following her initial court appearance on Thursday, Mthethwa was transferred to Westville Correctional Centre. She is scheduled to return to court on February 6 for her bail application.

    The shocking incident has drawn significant attention, with many questioning how she obtained the high-powered weapon and what led to such a violent outburst. Authorities continue to investigate the circumstances surrounding the case.

    The case is expected to unfold further in court, where Mthethwa will seek bail while the victim continues his recovery in the hospital.

  • Sjava Reaches Out to Fans with Heartfelt Words

    Sjava Reaches Out to Fans with Heartfelt Words

    Sjava Reaches Out to Fans with Heartfelt Words

    AWARD-winning singer Sjava is known for his soulful and heartfelt lyrics.

    He released the highly anticipated project live EP Inkanyezi on Friday, 31 January.

    The 40-year-old celebrated musician, whose real name is Jabulani Hadebe from Bergville in KZN, has also earned a nomination for the prestigious Trace Awards, a recognition he deeply appreciates.

    Speaking to Daily Sun, Sjava explained why he prefers to release music in January, emphasising the importance of starting the year on a motivational note.

    “I choose to release music in January because it’s a quieter period, and I believe music has different seasons. I’m not saying I will never release music in December, but I would only do so if the music aligns with the festive season. My January releases are always more introspective and meant to inspire people at the start of the year,” he said.

    One track that stands out on Inkanyezi is Sleepover, which carries a romantic theme.

    ALSO READ: Top Nigerian singer caught in a crossfire!

    Sjava encouraged fans to pay close attention to the song, as it speaks to appreciating one’s partner.

    “Sleepover is about spending quality time with your significant other. As inkabi, we don’t often do things like wearing gowns, having sleepovers, or going out to restaurants. This song highlights those small but meaningful moments shared with a loved one,” he said.

    On his Trace Awards nomination, Sjava expressed his gratitude, saying the recognition itself is a huge achievement.

    “It means so much to me, considering where I come from and where I am today. Being nominated at the Trace Awards is a dream come true. As kids, we wished for such moments, but I never imagined I’d be part of something so significant on the continent. Just being on the list is an honour,” he said.

    Sjava also emphasised the importance of working with up-and-coming artists, highlighting the untapped talent in the industry.

    “There are so many talented artists who haven’t had the opportunity to be successful. It’s important to uplift and support them because their potential is incredible,” he added.

  • Rising Star Tumi Musiq Shines in Amapiano Scene

    Rising Star Tumi Musiq Shines in Amapiano Scene

    Rising Star Tumi Musiq Shines in Amapiano Scene

    TUMI Musiq joins the big dogs.

    Sony Music Entertainment Africa has officially welcomed amapiano DJ and producer Tumi Musiq to its roster, marking a major milestone in his career.

    Alongside this exciting signing, the producer from Katlehong, Ekurhuleni has released his latest single titled Thixo Bawo, featuring Mia, George Lesley, and Jay Sax.

    Since launching his career in 2016, Tumi Musiq, whose real name is Boitumelo Tshabalala (24), has been dedicated to refining his craft.

    His debut single, Let It Rain, featuring Mick Man and Artwork Sounds, introduced him as a formidable force in the industry. Now, backed by Sony Music Africa, he’s set to reach even greater heights.

    “Joining Sony Music is a dream come true. I feel incredibly blessed to be part of such a prestigious institution,” said Tumi Musiq.

    ALSO READ: Dlala Thukzin gets big international nod!

    Known for blending jazz and R&B influences with amapiano’s signature rhythms, his music delivers a mature, soulful listening experience.

    More than just a song, Thixo Bawo is a heartfelt expression of transformation and gratitude.

    “The track is a prayer, acknowledging the power of music to change lives. Collaborating with Mia on vocals was effortless, thanks to their aligned creative energy. Mia is a free spirit in the studio. She’s easy to work with, and our musical styles naturally connect,” he said.

    For Mia, this single marks a milestone as her first Amapiano composition.

    “Thixo Bawo is an expression of my gratitude for my musical gift,” she shares, making this collaboration deeply personal.

    Tumi Musiq hopes his journey will inspire fellow artists to explore different sounds and embrace growth.

    “Never limit yourself. Experiment with different styles and always give thanks for your blessings never take them for granted,” he advised.

    His upward trajectory continued in 2024 when he was featured on Russell Zuma’s Love Season project, further solidifying his impact in the industry.

     

  • WATCH | Manaka Ranaka: I felt my baby leave

    WATCH | Manaka Ranaka: I felt my baby leave

    WATCH | Manaka Ranaka: I felt my baby leave


    KATLEGO Ranaka laid to rest.

    Kind and loving were some of the words used to describe Katlego.

    One speaker after another paid heartfelt tribute to Katlego during her funeral service at San Salvador Catholic Church in Leondale, Ekurhuleni, on Saturday, 1 February.

    The 24-year-old daughter of Generations: The Legacy actress, Manaka Ranaka passed away on 23 January after a short illness.

    Giving her final respects to her niece, reality star, Mpumi Ranaka, shared how words could not describe the depth of their sorrow as they gathered to lay Katlego to rest.

    She spoke about her close bond with Manaka, as their children were born around the same time.

    “We breastfed together, watched our kids grow and built a special bond with my niece, Katlego. Katlego was more than a niece to me; she was a piece of my heart and the joy that I will carry forever,” she said.

    Struggling to hold back tears, Mpumi thanked her sister Manaka for trusting her with Katlego.

    Mpumi’s daughter, Thando, who is often referred to as Katlego’s “soul sister,” also shared a moving tribute. She told mourners how difficult it was to say goodbye.

    “But it had to be done. I must let you go. I have not prepared any funeral speech for you because I never thought you would leave before me. I thought we would leave around the same time or that I would leave first,” she said.

    Thando described saying goodbye as losing a piece of herself.

    Manaka revealed to the mourners that she felt her daughter leave even before her death was pronounced.

    “I felt you leave, my baby. My womb felt you leave. I still feel you leaving me even today. I can only imagine what Mpho (Katlego’s son) is feeling now,” she said.

    “I saw you last night and you didn’t look like my KG. We will keep your memory alive for ourselves and for the sake of your son. Fly high, my angel.”

    The funeral was attended by family, friends, Manaka’s colleagues and Katlego’s schoolmates.

    Generations actress, Refilwe Madumo praised Manaka for being a great mother despite her demanding schedule.

    “You allowed your daughter to spread her wings instead of living under your shadow,” she said.

    Katlego was laid to rest at South Park Memorial in Germiston

  • Manaka Ranaka’s Heartfelt Goodbye to Daughter Katlego

    Manaka Ranaka’s Heartfelt Goodbye to Daughter Katlego

    Manaka Ranaka’s Heartfelt Goodbye to Daughter Katlego

    **A Tearful Farewell**

    Katlego Ranaka, the beloved 24-year-old daughter of *Generations: The Legacy* actress Manaka Ranaka, was laid to rest on Saturday, 1 February, at the South Park Memorial in Germiston. Her funeral service was held at San Salvador Catholic Church in Leondale, Ekurhuleni, where family, friends, colleagues, and schoolmates gathered to bid their final goodbyes.

    Katlego passed away on 23 January after a brief illness, leaving behind a grieving family and a young son, Mpho. The funeral was filled with emotional tributes as speakers described her as a kind and loving soul whose presence brought joy to those around her.

    ## **A Bond Beyond Words**

    Reality star and family member Mpumi Ranaka shared her deep sorrow, reflecting on her close bond with both Katlego and Manaka. She recalled how they raised their children together, forming a sisterly bond that extended to their daughters.

    “We breastfed together, watched our kids grow, and built a special bond with my niece, Katlego. She was more than just a niece to me—she was a piece of my heart. The joy she brought into my life will remain with me forever,” Mpumi said, struggling to hold back tears.

    Mpumi also expressed her gratitude to Manaka for allowing her to be part of Katlego’s life and for trusting her with her care.

    ## **A Sister’s Grief**

    Thando, Mpumi’s daughter and Katlego’s close companion, also delivered an emotional tribute. She expressed the pain of having to say goodbye, something she never imagined she would have to do.

    “I didn’t prepare a funeral speech for you because I never thought you would leave before me. I always thought we would leave together or that I would go first,” she said tearfully.

    She described Katlego’s passing as losing a part of herself, a pain she will carry forever.

    ## **A Mother’s Unbreakable Bond**

    Manaka Ranaka spoke from the depths of her heart, revealing that she felt her daughter’s departure even before it was officially announced.

    “I felt you leave, my baby. My womb felt you leave. Even now, I still feel the pain of you leaving me,” she said, holding back tears.

    She also acknowledged the pain Katlego’s young son, Mpho, must be feeling and promised to keep her daughter’s memory alive for his sake.

    “I saw you last night, but you didn’t look like my KG. We will honor your memory, not just for ourselves but for your son. Fly high, my angel,” she said.

    ## **A Legacy of Love**

    Refilwe Madumo, a fellow *Generations* actress, praised Manaka for being a devoted mother despite her demanding career.

    “You allowed your daughter to spread her wings and be her own person, instead of living under your shadow,” she said.

    The service was a reflection of Katlego’s impact on those around her. Though her life was cut short, the love and memories she left behind will continue to live in the hearts of those who knew her.

  • Tragic Death of Rhea Lily White Sparks Outrage Over Femicide

    Tragic Death of Rhea Lily White Sparks Outrage Over Femicide

    Tragic Death of Rhea Lily White Sparks Outrage Over Femicide

    Johannesburg, South Africa – The tragic death of 24-year-old Rhea Lily White has sent shockwaves across the nation. Her lifeless body was discovered at the Sandton Hotel in Johannesburg on 23 January 2025, raising serious concerns about gender-based violence (GBV) and femicide.

    **Suspicious Circumstances Surrounding Her Death**

    Reports indicate that Rhea was in the company of two men at the time of her death. The men claim she committed suicide, despite allegations that she was shot with a pistol belonging to one of them. The circumstances surrounding her passing remain unclear, and as of now, no arrests have been made. This has led to growing frustration and demands for justice from the public.

    ## **A Nation in Mourning**

    Rhea’s untimely death has sparked deep sorrow among her loved ones and the broader community. She was described as a kind and beautiful soul whose life was taken too soon. Her passing serves as yet another reminder of the increasing threat women face in South Africa, where femicide rates remain alarmingly high.

     

    ## **Calls for Action Against GBV and Femicide**

    The tragic loss of Rhea has reignited calls for stronger action against gender-based violence and femicide. Activists and concerned citizens are demanding justice, urging authorities to treat these cases with the urgency they deserve. Many believe it is time to declare GBV and femicide a National Disaster, as more and more women fall victim to violence without swift consequences for perpetrators.

    ## **Justice for Rhea**

    As investigations continue, the public is calling for transparency and accountability in handling Rhea’s case. Her name joins a heartbreaking list of women whose lives were cut short by violence, leaving families and communities devastated. How many more lives must be lost before real change is implemented?

    Rhea Lily White deserves justice. Every woman deserves to live without fear. The fight against GBV and femicide must continue until every woman in South Africa is safe.

     

  • Justin Bieber’s Struggles: Marriage Woes, Diddy Scandal, and Mental Health Concerns

    Justin Bieber’s Struggles: Marriage Woes, Diddy Scandal, and Mental Health Concerns

    Justin Bieber’s Struggles: Marriage Woes, Diddy Scandal, and Mental Health Concerns

    *A Troubled Appearance**

    Justin Bieber, once known for his charismatic smile and youthful charm, looked almost unrecognizable during a recent outing in New York. The 30-year-old pop star, with his shaved head and weary expression, seemed burdened by personal and professional troubles. Rumors of a rocky marriage with Hailey Bieber, controversy surrounding his former mentor P Diddy, and concerns over his mental health have fueled speculation about his current state.

    **Marriage on the Rocks?**
    Reports suggest that Bieber’s seven-year marriage to Hailey Baldwin may be in jeopardy. The couple, who welcomed their first child, Jack Blues, in August, were expected to be stronger than ever. However, Justin recently unfollowed Hailey on social media, only to refollow her later, claiming his account was hacked. Some insiders say Hailey’s friends have advised her to leave him, hinting at ongoing difficulties.

    A source revealed, “Hailey has been struggling with Justin almost since the start of their marriage. She loves him, but he’s unpredictable.” Another source noted that the couple could go days without speaking to each other, raising further concerns about their relationship.

    #### **A History of Struggles**
    Justin Bieber has had a well-documented history of mental health struggles and substance abuse. In 2019, he admitted on Instagram that he had been “disrespectful to women” and was working to be a better person. His past includes arrests, street brawls, and excessive drug use, which he later confessed had led his security team to check his pulse at night.

    His struggles resurfaced in 2022 when he abruptly canceled his world tour due to health concerns. He later sold his music catalog for £160 million, hinting at a possible step away from the music industry.

    #### **Diddy Scandal and Friendship Fallout**
    Another cloud hanging over Bieber is his association with P Diddy, who was recently arrested for sex trafficking offenses. Although there is no suggestion that Bieber was involved in any wrongdoing, his silence on the matter has raised eyebrows.

    Bieber had attended Diddy’s notorious “white parties,” where alcohol, drugs, and women were allegedly readily available. A resurfaced video from 2009 showed Diddy boasting about spending 48 hours with a then 15-year-old Bieber. Many of Diddy’s former associates have distanced themselves, but Bieber has not publicly addressed the scandal.

    Adding to the speculation, Bieber recently unfollowed Usher, the mentor who helped launch his career, without explanation.

    #### **The Impact of Liam Payne’s Death**
    The death of former One Direction member Liam Payne in October has also taken a toll on Bieber. Payne’s tragic fall from a hotel balcony, after allegedly consuming drugs, hit close to home for Bieber, who has experienced similar pressures of fame since a young age.

    After Payne’s passing, Bieber shared a heartfelt message on social media, stating, “You are allowed to love someone you’ve never met… to admire their art… to cry, to break, to feel like a part of you is gone.”

    #### **Fans Fear Another Breakdown**
    Fans are increasingly worried about Bieber’s well-being. His recent gaunt appearance, cryptic social media posts, and withdrawal from public life suggest he may be going through another mental health crisis.

    If his marriage truly is in trouble, losing Hailey’s support could push Bieber further into isolation. Given his past struggles, the world is watching closely, hoping that the former child star does not spiral back into self-destructive behavior.

    **Conclusion**
    Justin Bieber’s life has been a rollercoaster of fame, controversy, and personal battles. As rumors of a failing marriage, ties to the Diddy scandal, and emotional struggles continue to swirl, fans can only hope that he finds the strength to overcome his current hardships.

  • Uncle Phomolo Saves the Day: A Love Triangle Resolved on Skeem Saam

    Uncle Phomolo Saves the Day: A Love Triangle Resolved on Skeem Saam

    Uncle Phomolo Saves the Day: A Love Triangle Resolved on Skeem Saam

    **Uncle Phomolo’s Bold Move Changes Everything**

    In a surprising twist on *Skeem Saam*, Uncle Phomolo has stepped in just in time, diverting Doctor Loraine’s attention from Lehasa Maphosa. His unexpected intervention has not only helped Doctor Loraine find a new love interest but has also rescued Lehasa and Pretty’s relationship from potential disaster. Lehasa had been developing feelings for the charming doctor, which threatened his commitment to Pretty.

    ## **Phomolo and Doctor Loraine: A Refreshing Love Story**

    Phomolo’s decisive action has added an exciting dimension to the storyline. Known for his wisdom and down-to-earth nature, he has finally found love with a respectable woman like Doctor Loraine. Fans of the show are thrilled to see him stepping into the spotlight, rather than remaining in the shadows of Lehasa’s constant drama.

    This development brings a new dynamic to *Skeem Saam*, as Phomolo and Doctor Loraine’s romance introduces fresh energy to the show. Viewers are eager to see how their relationship unfolds and whether Phomolo has finally found his long-awaited happiness.

    ## **Lehasa and Pretty’s Love Grows Stronger**

    Lehasa and Pretty’s relationship has faced numerous challenges, from family disapproval to business rivalries. However, through it all, their love has remained resilient. Uncle Phomolo’s decision to pursue Doctor Loraine has allowed Lehasa to refocus on Pretty, strengthening their bond even further.

    Fans are relieved to see the couple avoiding further distractions and deepening their connection. With Doctor Loraine out of the picture, Lehasa and Pretty now have a chance to thrive without external temptations pulling them apart.

    ## **A Game-Changer for Skeem Saam**

    Uncle Phomolo’s newfound romance has shifted the balance of the show’s love stories. For the first time, Phomolo is at the center of an unfolding love story rather than merely playing a supporting role. His relationship with Doctor Loraine has not only provided him with a fresh start but has also allowed Lehasa and Pretty to solidify their bond.

    This unexpected twist has left fans excited for what’s to come. Will Phomolo’s relationship stand the test of time? Can Lehasa and Pretty continue to build their love without further interference?

    ## **What’s Next for the Beloved Characters?**

    As *Skeem Saam* continues to deliver unexpected drama, fans are eager to see how these love stories develop. Will Lehasa and Pretty finally get their happy ending, or will new challenges emerge? How will Phomolo and Doctor Loraine’s relationship evolve?

    One thing is certain: Uncle Phomolo’s bold move has changed the course of events, bringing hope for lasting happiness. Stay tuned to *Skeem Saam* to see how these relationships unfold in the coming episodes!

  • Gogo Maweni Gives Back to Pregnant Prison Mates After Bail Release

    Gogo Maweni Gives Back to Pregnant Prison Mates After Bail Release

    Gogo Maweni Gives Back to Pregnant Prison Mates After Bail Release

     

    **Gogo Maweni’s Heartwarming Gesture Post-Prison**

    After her recent release on bail, controversial sangoma Gogo Maweni has been making headlines for her unexpected acts of kindness. Instead of retreating from the public eye, she has chosen to give back to those she formed bonds with while in prison.

    ### **Shopping for Former Prison Mates**

    In a touching gesture, Gogo Maweni shared a video of herself shopping for her former prison mates, particularly those who are pregnant. She expressed gratitude for the incredible women she met during her time behind bars, stating that she would always cherish their stories and experiences.

    Taking to Instagram, she posted:

    > “I met incredible women with amazing stories… I will forever cherish them in my heart.”

    She went on to purchase baby essentials such as clothes, diapers, and food for the expectant mothers, showing her appreciation for the connections she made in prison.

    ### **Acknowledging the Work of Prison Wardens**

    Gogo Maweni did not stop at helping her fellow inmates—she also took a moment to recognize the efforts of the Sun City prison wardens. She praised them for their dedication, professionalism, and commitment to making a positive impact on the lives of the incarcerated women.

    > “I’d also like to take a moment to publicly recognize the wardens working in Sun City prison for their exceptional work. Their dedication, love, and unwavering commitment to excellence truly shone through, exceeding all expectations and making a significant impact on the women.”

    Her words highlighted an often-overlooked aspect of prison life, showing appreciation for those who work to maintain order and provide support for inmates.

    ### **Fans React to Gogo Maweni’s Kindness**

    Netizens were deeply moved by Gogo Maweni’s generosity, flooding her social media with messages of praise and encouragement. Many commended her for turning a challenging experience into an opportunity to uplift others.

    Here’s what some of her followers had to say:

    – **@mariethbasin**: “Dr. Maweni is incredibly kind and compassionate, always willing to lend a helping hand to those in need.”
    – **@_miss_zahmakhanya**: “You have a beautiful heart of gold. God and your ancestors sent you there for a reason.”
    – **@palesa8179**: “You can’t lose because you look for a lesson in every situation. We love you, Queen.”
    – **@parbieparbiana**: “Your heart, mama. I always tell people that you’re such a sweet soul.”
    – **@gugulethu_precious_mahlangu**: “God bless you, Gogo. They can never make me hate you.”

    ### **Gogo Maweni’s Plans to Write a Tell-All Book**

    Following her bail release, Gogo Maweni has hinted at an exciting new project—a tell-all book. She intends to share her experiences, shedding light on her time in prison and the lessons she learned along the way. Fans are eagerly anticipating this book, as many believe it will be an eye-opening account of her personal journey.

    ### **A New Chapter for Gogo Maweni**

    Despite her legal troubles, Gogo Maweni is proving that she is determined to turn her life around. Her recent actions reflect a desire to bring positivity and hope to those who need it the most. Whether through her generosity, her appreciation for prison staff, or her upcoming book, she continues to capture public interest in unexpected ways.

    Her story is a reminder that even in difficult circumstances, one can choose kindness, resilience, and personal growth.

  • SANDF Soldier’s Death in DRC Could Have Been Prevented, Says Grieving Father

    SANDF Soldier’s Death in DRC Could Have Been Prevented, Says Grieving Father

    SANDF Soldier’s Death in DRC Could Have Been Prevented, Says Grieving Father

    **Family Seeks Closure Amidst Tragedy**

    The family of Pieter Strydom, a South African National Defence Force (SANDF) soldier killed in a bombing in Sake, Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC), is struggling to find closure as his body remains in a mobile mortuary controlled by rebels. His father, Pieter Strydom Sr., believes his son’s death could have been avoided if the military had granted his request to return home due to deteriorating mental health.

    **A Soldier’s Journey to the DRC**

    Strydom Jr., 34, was a father of three and had served in the military since 2010 as a chef in the ASB unit in Kimberly. In November 2023, he traveled to Luanda, Angola, for training before being deployed to the DRC in April 2024. Initially, he was assigned to Goma, a relatively safer location, but was later stationed in Sake, an area heavily affected by ongoing conflict.

    ## **Dangerous Conditions and Makeshift Bunkers**

    Upon arriving in Sake, Strydom quickly realized the dire conditions. Bombs and bullets were a constant threat, and he was particularly concerned about the lack of proper shelters.

    “They dug trenches and covered them with a few tires and sandbags. That’s it,” his father explained. “There wasn’t enough space for all the soldiers to hide at the same time. When bombs started falling, it was first come, first serve. If there was no room, you had to hide under a truck or a tree.”

    ## **Desperate Plea for Release Ignored**

    As the conflict intensified, Strydom’s mental health suffered. About two months ago, he formally requested to be released from his duties, citing severe emotional distress. However, his plea was denied, and he was forced to continue serving.

    “My child would be alive today if the military had sent him home when he asked. He was scared and depressed, but they refused to listen,” said Strydom Sr.

    ## **Tragic Death Amidst Bombardment**

    On the fateful day, five soldiers, including Strydom, were caught in a bombing attack. Four died instantly, while Strydom bled to death shortly after. His family is devastated, believing his death was preventable.

    “I am heartbroken, my wife is heartbroken, his wife is heartbroken, and his three children are heartbroken because this could have been avoided,” said his father.

    ## **Struggle to Bring His Body Home**

    Adding to their grief, the family is unable to bring Strydom’s body home as it remains in rebel-controlled territory. His father questions why his son’s remains couldn’t be transported back when South Africa deployed additional troops to the region.

    “We can’t get closure because his body is still in the DRC,” he said.

    ## **A Call for Answers**

    Strydom’s tragic death has raised serious concerns about the treatment of soldiers deployed in high-risk areas. His family is demanding accountability from SANDF, questioning why his requests for release were ignored and why proper safety measures weren’t in place.

    As the conflict in the DRC continues, the fate of fallen soldiers like Strydom remains a painful reminder of the risks they face and the urgent need for better support systems