Kairo Forbes, Uncle Bongani, and the Great Name Debate: What’s in a Title?
Social media was buzzing recently after Murdah Bongz shared a heartwarming video featuring Kairo Forbes and baby Asante. While most fans were delighted by the adorable family moment, one small detail ignited a debate—Kairo calling Murdah by his name instead of using “Uncle Bongani.” The internet, as always, had plenty to say about it.
The Name Controversy: What’s the Big Deal?
In the now-viral video, Kairo casually referred to Murdah Bongz by his first name, and that was all it took for social media users to explode into a debate. Some believed she should have called him “Uncle Bongani” as a sign of respect, while others argued that names are a personal choice and not necessarily tied to respect.
“Why can’t she just call him Uncle Bongani?” some commenters asked. However, the reality is that people are raised differently, and their communication styles reflect that. Using or not using a title does not automatically equate to a lack of respect. Many children address adults by their first names without any disrespect intended—it simply depends on the family dynamic.
Personal Comfort vs. Tradition
Supporters of Kairo’s choice pointed out that comfort should come first. One social media user wrote, “A prefix has nothing to do with respect… but respect does!” And that makes sense. Children develop bonds with adults in different ways, and the way they address them is part of that evolving relationship.
For many people, using first names for adults is a normal part of their upbringing. Some parents even encourage their children to call them by their first names, believing that respect is shown through actions rather than formal titles. Kairo calling Murdah by his first name might simply be a sign of familiarity and comfort rather than anything deeper.
Changing Relationships Over Time
As children grow, their relationships with adults change, and the way they address them may evolve as well. Today, Kairo might feel comfortable calling Murdah by his first name, but in the future, she might naturally switch to “Uncle” or another affectionate title. These things happen organically based on the bond they share.
What matters most is the love and care that exist within the family. Murdah Bongz himself does not seem bothered by what Kairo calls him—after all, he posted the video with pride. If he has no issue with it, why should the rest of the internet?
Let Kairo Be a Kid
The outrage over a child’s choice of words feels unnecessary. At the end of the day, kids should be allowed to be kids without the weight of social expectations on their shoulders. As one commenter wisely said, “Own race, own pace.” Every child navigates relationships in their own way, and that should be respected.
Rather than focusing on titles, let’s celebrate the joy and love in Kairo’s life. Whether she calls him “Bongani,” “Uncle Bongani,” or something else entirely, what truly matters is the bond they share. After all, respect and love go far beyond a simple title.
